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What Can A 2300 Year Old Philosophy Teach Us? Top 5 Lessons Learned From Stoic Week 2015

12/10/2015

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Every November, a group of psychologists and philosophers based at the university of Exeter in England run an experiment and online study course called Stoic Week. These same folks maintain the fabulous Blog, Stoicism Today. The 2015 Stoic Week theme focused on one of my favorite philosophers, Marcus Aurelius. 

For those of you who aren't familiar with Stoic Philosophy, The Stoic School began with Zeno of Citicum in Greece and moved West to Rome where it was popular in the first few centuries A. D. The Stoics, including Zeno, Cicero, Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and others developed a practical philosophy for increasing happiness and virtue, which they called The Art of Living. 

Stoic thought is currently enjoying a modern revival as some of the core practices align with those of cognitive behavioral psychology, as well as various elements of Eastern thought which resonate with modern readers. Stoic Week is an experiment of sorts where this pragmatic philosophy is applied through daily practice to see if it makes the participants happier and more content with their lives. 

I participated in Stoic week last month, and it was a great experience. Here are the top five lessons that I have learned from this 2300 year old philosophy: ​
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1. Stoics Meditate and Stoic Philosophy is the "Western Buddhism"

We may think that Western thought lacks meditative and introspective elements common to the Vedic and Buddhist schools in the East. This is not so. We don't actually need to look outside of our Western philosophical traditions for these types of ideas. Like various schools of Eastern philosophy, the Stoics were also concerned practicing moderation and detachment from destructive emotions by focusing on what we actually can control; our state of mind. 

Stoic philosophy may actually be more pragmatic for native Westerners, because unlike the Eastern monastic traditions such as Buddhism, Stoicism is a philosophy for living. The ideal Stoic Sage is not a cloistered monk, but the average person deeply involved in the world: the parent, the worker, the statesman, etc. Anyone can seek Stoic excellence regardless of roles or social position. 

The Stoics used a form of meditation or reflective practice. While much of what was written about Stoic reflective practice was lost to history, what is known is that they used a system of morning and evening meditation which may have been borrowed from the Pythagoreans. Stoic Week participants were encouraged to do these morning and evening meditations.

The morning meditation consists of taking 5-10 minutes upon waking up to show gratitude that we are alive, and that we have another day to be thankful for. We also may rehearse for the day ahead, planning on how to make our self a better person, or focusing on challenges that may arise.


The evening mediation consists of reflecting back on the day's events while focusing on what we did well, and perhaps what we didn't do so well in terms of our conduct, with a mind to do better next time. Stoics are encouraged not to morbidly ruminate or berate themselves for mistakes, but to simply to do their best and improve daily.
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2. "Virtue" is Somewhat Offensive to Our Modern Sensibilities 

The Stoics, following the Aristotelian tradition, placed a great deal of emphasis on virtue. Virtue can be simply defined as "excellent character." The Stoics went further than their predecessors by declaring that only virtue is necessary for happiness. 

The four primary Stoic virtues are wisdom, moderation, justice and courage. These are usually translated from Greek as one word equivalents. Some posters on the Stoic Week forum had difficulty with these concepts, and another poster on the forum pointed out that the reason these concepts may not be so palatable to us today is the translations into English are too simplistic:
"Digging into the original Greek concepts, you start to find the translations utterly lacking. First I got my head around sophrosyne (moderation), which describes a quality for which there is no single word in English. Sophrosyne contains elements of "knowing the middle', not going overboard, tempering your emotions and your appetites; not eating too much, not getting drunk; showing poise; showing decorum and carrying yourself with pride and gravitas; self-restraint. As such, many of the posters here who can not make their value set congruent with the 4 stoic values may find a lot of surprises. 'Andrea' is commonly translated from Greek as courage, but it also contains elements of 'motive force', 'power to get up and do things'. When viewed that way, andrea becomes a lot more applicable than merely being brave."
As far as I am concerned, regardless of the semantic issues, the point of being virtuous and having a good character is not based on some stuffy or outdated notion of morality. The point is that we will likely suffer a lot of personal conflict in our lives if we don't devote ourselves to high moral ideals. Our relativist modern culture doesn't seem to quite *get* this. 

I didn't devote myself to virtue/excellent character until I was around 31 years old. Before that time I was focused on the usual things: my intellect, my ego, my looks, clothes, travel, pleasurable living, etc. However we need to ask ourselves if these things that our culture is typically concerned with are really tantamount to living a good life. 
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3. Some Things Are Within Our Control, Others Are Not 

According to the Stoics, only virtue is truly necessary for happiness. Having good health, money, and a good reputation are certainly preferable, but they are not ultimately prerequisites for happiness. Happiness comes from within us. 

It always bugged me that the Stoic philosophers considered health to be something beyond our control or a preferred indifferent (meaning that you can be happy without good health). Certainly your health/body, your property, etc., are not entirely out of your control. We can control what we eat, exercise habits, how well we maintain things, etc.
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But as one poster on the Stoic Week Forum noted, "the important thing is they [health, property, reputation] are not entirely within your control either. You can control whether you decide to smoke, but if you get cancer, you get cancer. That is out of your control. You control your property, until the state expropriates your land or someone steals your car. You control your social role to a small degree, until someone runs a smear campaign. "

The power of Stoic philosophy lies in bearing hardships with equanimity. Its easy to be happy when times are good, less so when things are going poorly or when conflicts arise. When we realize that much in life is beyond our control, it frees us from suffering. 

"Remember too on every occasion which leads thee to vexation to apply this principle: not that this is a misfortune, but that to bear it nobly is good fortune. 
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4. Wish With Reservation

Marcus Aurelius advocated "wishing with reserve." He noted that we are part of an interconnected sequence of events in life, many of which are outside of our control. Therefore, when wishing for something outside of our control, we should think to ourselves, "I plan to do, or I would like...x, y, and z, as long as nothing prevents it." 

I was surprised by this information, since this almost exactly what I have been doing in my life and not knowing it was Stoic. Usually when I wish for something out of my control, I wish for "the best possible outcome," with respect to the interconnected sequence of events or fate. (Fate...now there is a concept that is unpalatable to modern readers!) 

I wish with reserve both because something may prevent my wish from being fulfilled, and also because the sequence of events could actually offer up something better than I could plan or wish for myself.

If events transpire in a "negative," way, or not as I wanted, I try to use it as an opportunity for me to practice gratitude for what is actually going right in my life, or try to exercise forbearance. If I don't get what what I wish for, I usually assume that fate required things to transpire as they did. 
​This makes disappointments easier to accept.
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5. Focus on the Good Qualities of Your Family and Friends

Its easy to get annoyed with family and friends from time to time. However a Stoic would note that no one is perfect and that the behavior of other people is not within our control. Rather than focusing on other people's negative qualities, we should focus on their good traits. 

"Whenever you want to cheer yourself up, think of the good qualities of those who live with you: such as the energy of one, the decency of another, the generosity of another, and some other quality in someone else. There is nothing so cheering as the images of the virtues displayed in the characters of those who live with you, and grouped together as far as possible. So you should keep them ready at hand". - Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
, 6.48

Epictetus implores us to remember that when someone does something that we don't agree with that ​"it seemed right to him." This is an easy thing to say to yourself rather than ruminating on the causes of someone's poor behavior.
 


"Do not yet expect Plato's Republic: but be content if the smallest thing goes well, and consider such an event to be no small matter. For who can change men's opinions?" - Marcus Aurelius 

Image: Credit Stoic Week 2015
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