But the truth is that life is short. None of us knows how much time we have. In Plato's Phaedo, he introduces the idea that philosophy is "about nothing else but dying and being dead". The Stoics were also fond of this discipline, and Seneca's letters are full of injunctions to meditate on death. Thinking about death need not be negative. On the contrary, it may inspire us to live betters lives in the here and now.
According to Bronnie Ware, a hospice nurse from Australia, many of her dying patients expressed regrets over how their lives had played out. I've gone on to list 7 of these regrets below. Meditating on common regrets of the dying can help us to put our own lives into perspective before our time is up.
1. Not Taking Better Care of Your Health When You Had the Chance
2. Taking Life For Granted
3. Not Telling Loved Ones How You Felt Enough
4. Worrying Too Much
5. Not Being A Better Mother or Father
6. Not Having Enough Confidence In Yourself
7. Not Doing More For Others
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